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The Conversation: More people are considering AI lovers, and we shouldn’t judge

July 21, 2025 — 

As written in The Conversation by Neil McArthur, Professor, Faculty of Arts, Director, Centre for Professional and Applied Ethics, University of Manitoba.

People are falling in love with their chatbots. There are now dozens of apps that offer intimate companionship with an AI-powered bot, and they have millions of users. A recent survey of users found that 19 per cent of Americans have interacted with an AI meant to simulate a romantic partner.

The response has been polarizing. In a New Yorker article titled “Your A.I. Lover Will Change You,” futurist Jaron Lanier argued that “when it comes to what will happen when people routinely fall in love with an A.I., I suggest we adopt a pessimistic estimate about the likelihood of human degradation.”

Podcaster Joe Rogan put it more succinctly — in a recent interview with Sen. Bernie Sanders, the two discussed the “dystopian” prospect of people marrying their AIs. Noting a case where this has already happened, Rogan said: “I’m like, oh, we’re done. We’re cooked.”

Read the full story at The Conversation Canada

Research at the University of Manitoba is partially supported by funding from the Government of Canada Research Support Fund.

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